The Secret Fear That Keeps You On Your Heels
You can't hide it.
I've had the
fear. Every man I know deals with the fear.
It's the fear of LOSING IT ALL.
In the face of female rejection, married men find themselves gripped in the fear of saying or doing
the wrong thing and bringing the walls crashing down around them.
When faced with female rejection, disapproval or disgust we will instinctively do one or all of these FOUR THINGS.
We will:
- Counter-attack, counter-criticize and/or counter-blame
- Go deadly quiet and pull away and go lick our wounds until she gives in and apologizes (it's a very long wait)
- Expertly deliver a long, drawn out "Perry Mason Style" defensive argument with evidence that she is wrong...and we'll keep talking until she either agrees or goes into hiding. (guess which one is most common)
- Quietly stew with teeming anger and contempt for her and begin calculating the real cost of being a single father. (Divorce
math, I call it)
We do these things because we are AFRAID.
And she knows we're afraid. And THAT makes HER more afraid.
If I had to summarize the bottom-line benefit men get from Goodguys2Greatmen coaching it's this.
We help you realize that you're not actually "afraid". You just THINK you are.
We expose the truth about male shame, male fear and male insecurity and help you permanently cure them. And THEN we help you have the relationship you've always dreamed of.
Confident, Calm, Curious and Playful?
I know you know this.
ANYTHING
you've approached in life with a confident, calm, curious and playful manner always turned out pretty damn good.
Why not do it with your relationship with a woman, brother?
All you have to do is lose the fear.
I believe FEAR of divorce is the #1 cause of divorce.
It makes you think, say and do all the wrong
things.
So why not learn how to become the opposite of fear?
Are you ready to learn this stuff before another decade passes?
We've created the smartest and safest place on earth for men to gather. It's where we share, listen and LEARN THE THINGS OUR DADS FORGOT TO TEACH US.