Every single time we talk about a woman "wanting space", we inevitably hear from some pissed of men telling us there's no hope.
"Kick her to the curb!",
they say. "Give her all the space she wants and replace her!", they say.
Unless there is a lot of other horrible, destructive behavior going on in your marriage, the "I want space" request is simply an early warning about how she feels about your marriage. There's no need to panic or kick her
out.
But there are certain things you need to know that your dad never told you.
If you're a man who wants to get smarter about what's really going on, this course is
perfect for you. The success stories coming from guys who have taken this course are piling up. Get on the waiting list now so you don't miss the launch of the next course.
Below, Garrett discusses the little known nuances in what she is probably thinking and feeling right now.
Here's Garrett.
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What To Do About Her Need For Space
If
your wife is sleeping in the other room or wants you to move out, this email is for you. Her need for space may not be what you think! Dive in below to get a better understanding of the difference between physical space and emotional space. There is an offer at the end of this email that could turn your relationship around for good!
What Her Need For Space Is Really All
About
Long before our partner asks for physical space there's something else that's been bothering her.
What finally drove her to ask for space was emotional PRESSURE.
Imagine a scenario where you felt emotional pressure from someone.
Maybe you've had...
- An employer who micromanaged your work
- A client who was
impossible to please
- A friend who always wanted assurance that they weren't being excluded
MORE time around these kinds of people only amplifies our desire to get away from them!
Yet what's the first thing we tend to do when our wife or girlfriend wants space?
We try to be with her MORE, work on the relationship MORE, and push for physical intimacy MORE.
But in
this case, LESS IS MORE.
Most men love their wives a lot and are ready to break their backs to be great husbands.
However, we can be a little oblivious to the ways we've been putting emotional pressure on our
spouse.
How To Give Your Wife Emotional Space
Every woman wants her marriage to succeed.
Asking for space is her last-ditch attempt.
By this point, she feels she's already done everything possible to show us how we're putting emotional pressure on her.
She really hopes eventually we will learn to give her space while still in the same room with her.
I call this emotional space.
You can learn how to give her emotional space while sitting on the same couch and holding her hand!
This level of maturity will no longer land you in the doghouse when she feels
overwhelmed with emotional pressure.
The secret is to learn detachment.
Detachment means...
- Not taking her reactions
personally
- Seeing things from her perspective (even if you don't agree)
- Noticing the uniqueness of her experiences and supporting her through it
- Knowing who YOU are so clearly her opinions don't feel like threats
- Trusting who YOU are so strongly you don't feel a need to explain yourself
- Not needing a specific outcome to be ok
Detachment is not giving up or being passive.
We're practicing detachment when we're present, engaged, and emotionally tuned in while being non-reactive and empathetic.
Exactly What To Do About Her Need For Space Over The Next 2 Months
Over the next two months, there will be 4 live video calls where
GG2GM Coach Mark Drezga & I will teach you exactly how to build your inner security and clarity to relieve your marriage of emotional pressure.
The first session is on October 12th at 5:00 PM Pacific time.
Only
those who register can join.
Spots are limited! Click HERE to get on our waiting list
to have priority to register on October 5th. Registration will only be open for 24 hours or until 8 spots are filled, whichever comes first.
Once you're on our waiting list, we'll start sending you some emails to prepare you for our first session along with some assignments.
As a bonus, we are including a special segment on how to confidently build a deep and meaningful emotional connection with your wife!
This segment is normally part of another program, and we don't plan to include it for free with future Confidence Course
groups.
Imagine being a man who can effortlessly lead your relationship away from arguments and frustration back to love, affection, respect, and positive experiences.
Can you see yourself taking charge of your relationship,
and clearing the blocks preventing the emotional connection your wife needs to feel in love with you?
You want to be this guy…She needs you to be this guy.
Course sessions will run every-other week for two months and the cost is only $424 per
month.
This new confident version of yourself who knows how to give space is waiting for you on the other side.
We'll see you there, live and in person!
Garrett Prettyman
Mark Drezga
Associate coaches at
GG2GM
