Every single man we talk to says they want these 3 things:
- Feelings of connection with their wife
- Relief
from their relationship anxiety and stress
- Unshakable inner peace and confidence
Below, Mark discusses the one simple secret to creating all 3 of those things.
I love Mark's way of explaining this secret. It's been true for me as well. Read for yourself.
Here's Mark.
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My name is Mark Drezga and along with fellow GG2GM coach, Garrett Prettyman; we developed the Vital Formula To Masculine
Confidence Course to help men become powerful leaders in all aspects of their lives.
Would you like to know one of the most powerful lessons I have ever learned...one that for years I simply refused to even consider.?
It's so simple and yet has the power to change everything for you.
It makes connecting more natural and effortless.
It naturally attracts others to you.
It unburdens you from the responsibly of dealing with other people’s problems and it makes you invincible.
You ready?
Get comfortable with feeling
uncomfortable.
That’s it brother.
When you can experience discomfort without needing to do anything about it, you become unstoppable.
You become unstoppable because you no longer need to do things to avoid feelings. You can simply have them.
I see you rolling your eyes over there!
It can't be that simple, I hear you say.
But it is.
Let me explain.
How much of your life is an attempt at avoiding uncomfortable feelings?
Do you:
- Argue with your wife or try to get her to agree with you?
- Let people walk over you, dismiss your ideas or treat you poorly?
- Regularly find yourself doing things that don't interest you
or drain you?
- Easily get offended by other people’s words or actions?
In each of these examples there is a common thread.
It is that most people will lean towards the
more comfortable option.
If speaking our mind means feeling uncomfortable, then we shut-up.
If disagreeing with someone creates tension, then we try to get them to agree with us (or we change our opinion to suit theirs).
In the short-term, this may provide some relief, but if you do it for long enough and you always end up bitter, resentful, and angry.
What would change for you, if your feelings didn't bother you?
A powerful coaching question you can ask yourself is:
"What would change for me, if I could have ANY feeling, without needing to change it to have a better life?".
Most people would say their lives would improve dramatically if they didn't have the negative feelings they were having.
Others try to numb out to escape them.
Even more people seek out practices and techniques to help make it so
they don't have any uncomfortable feelings in the first place.
All of these can work to a degree, but none get to root of the issue.
It's not the feeling that is the problem.
It's your desire to feel comfortable that brings you suffering.
Your feelings are not the problem.
It's the meaning you are giving your
feelings that creates your suffering.
Would you believe that for some people, not knowing what is going to happen next is exhilarating!
They consider it thrilling to do things on a whim and not have a plan.
They are the ones that can buy a ticket to another country and find accommodation once they land.
I know, they are crazy right??
And yet for
others, they must plan everything in advance, or they will be overwhelmed by anxiety and stress.
How can this be?
It's simple.
Events, circumstances, and situations have no inherent meaning or feelings in them.
They just are.
It is how we think about them that creates the feelings inside us.
And it is how we choose to think about the feelings that makes them tolerable or intolerable.
This is how two different people can have two VERY different experiences of the same situation.
One
experiences not knowing what is going to happen as fun.
The other finds it stressful.
Neither is more right or wrong than the other - they both have a different relationship to specific feelings in their bodies.
One enjoys the excitement.
The other avoids the anxiety.
The amazing thing is that you can change your relationship to your feelings!
Imagine a world where you could have all the terrifying, unpleasant feelings that come with being alive, without needing to change them.
How amazing and liberating would that be?
Think of all the things that you could do, even though they terrify you.
Garrett and I have been running and refining our course for several years now and what sets it apart is our approach to pushing you into your own growth.
The Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course has been designed to be a hands-on, supportive and challenging
experience by two men that have gone through EXACTLY what you are going through.
This isn't a work-at-your-own-pace video course.
This is a real-time coaching adventure that will push you into scary territory, while giving you an instant support
network of other men that will go through it with you.
We know what it's like to feel as though it's too risky to take drastic steps towards a different life.
We also know what it's like to NOT take those steps and try to keep everything exactly
as it is and always has been.
It's time to stop playing small brother!
Here are 3 simple steps:
- Mark your calendar! On
Saturday, October 5th, doors will open to register for "The Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course". The opportunity to register will be open for 24 hours or until 8 spots are filled, whichever comes first.
- To gain registration priority (and a 10% early-bird discount), Click HERE to get on our waiting list.
- Once on the waiting list, keep an eye out for the emails we'll send to help prepare you for the 1st
session.
Much love brothers!
Mark Drezga
The first session of the course will be on Saturday, October 12th, at 5:00 PM Pacific.
Course sessions will run every-other week for two months and the cost is only $424 per month.
We'll see you there, live and in
person!