This hurt me bad.
In 2013, I asked a popular men's coach (Alex
Allman) why he thought my wife never gave me the kind (and amount) of intimacy I wanted.
He looked me right in the eye...almost amused, and said...
"Because you're not yet the kind of guy who gets that stuff."
My knee jerk reaction tempted me to say, "Well, f*ck you, Alex!"
But he meant it with kindness and compassion. He explained that it's every man's journey.
Moving from a mostly insecure, anxious and frustrated masculine frame to a calm, deliberate and pleased frame was a challenge nobody ever explained to me.
That was 11 years ago. And I've been teaching men how to win this battle ever since. When the light comes on for you, you're going to shake your head in amazement.
At that moment you'll get it.
You will know why you were trying so hard and how to shift your thinking so everything happens easier than ever.
And then
you'll be the kind of man who gets what he wants.
Let me explain more "in person" in this video.