Hey brother,
Have you reached the delicate and painful phase
of your marriage where it is YOU who is questioning everything?
Have you uttered any of these thoughts to yourself?
- I can't live like this anymore
- I deserve to be treated better
- Is this as good as my sex life will ever be?
- She's done and it's all hopeless anyway
- I have too much self-respect to stay any longer
- I may as well give her what she says she wants
- I want to be in a relationship with someone who WANTS me!
If you have thought any of those things, you're not alone.
It's scary.
And as much as you THINK you're getting clear about your decision, all of the "Yeah, but's" pour into your head.
- What about the kids? Don't they deserve an intact family?
- What will people think? Everyone thinks we're in great shape!
- What about the MONEY? I can't lose half of everything.
- What if I'm moving too fast?
- What about the 10, 20, 30, 40 years of history together?
- What if we could make something better out of this mess?
We want
to offer you a clearer view and a clearer mind about all of this.
I've had this conversation HUNDREDS of times with men in many different situations. The variables you're facing might include:
- My kids are so young!
- My wife is anxious/depressed/mentally ill!
- My wife is physically sick!
- I don't have the income to
support two separate places!
- My wife is seeing another man...or another woman!
- She says she "Just doesn't know what she wants" and I feel totally stuck!
Again. Welcome to the club. You may be special, brother. But this story is NOT new.
The good news is you can gain clarity, courage, confidence and calmness in the face of what feels like a sh*t show.
You may have read a book we promote often to our community.
Hold On To Your N.U.T.s is an amazing book by men's coach and author, Wayne
Levine, that helps men establish their own values and personal sense of power and direction. Wayne teaches that your "non-negotiable, unalterable terms" (NUTs) are a critical part of becoming a strong, confident, self-respecting man. (you can get the audio version free with our program)
And when it comes to making the hardest decisions of your life, you better have your N.U.T.s in order.
Wayne Levine and I have teamed up to invite you to a LIVE 4-part coaching conversation with men like you who want more:
- Clarity
- Confidence
- Courage
- Calm
- Insight
- Understanding
- Compassion
Our "Should You Stay or Should You Go" program is a LIVE, 4-session, deep dive coaching conversation and Q&A event where you will get what you need to get unstuck.
The worst feeling ever is to not know what you're next decision should be. We will help you understand your situation more clearly and feel more confident in your decision making process.
There are many good reasons a man should STAY in his relationship.
And there are many good reasons a man should GO.
Click this LINK to get more information about this event that takes place on four Saturday mornings starting July 26th.
We want you to join us and to find the peace of mind you need to make the hardest decision of your life.
Before each session we will be asking you to submit any specific questions you want us to address during the live session.
After registration, you’ll receive an email with a few questions to help us know you, some details about your situation and your personal goals and desires.
Recordings will be provided if you miss a
session.
