• I love you...but I'm just not IN LOVE with you anymore
Let's break this down in very simple terms. It needs to be simple because the intensity of your emotions when you hear these things can rattle you to the core.
It puts your brain into overdrive which creates immediate OVERWHELM in your central nervous system.
What if the simple explanation was: “Give me space so I can be ME again so I can love YOU better”?
Sometimes that’s exactly what it is! But most times it's much more complicated than that.
Some people believe if anyone ever uses the phrase, “I need space” means they are already cheating and sleeping with someone else.
And sometimes it does. But again, most times it's much more complicated than that.
Do you want to know what "more complicated" might sound like inside the head and heart of your wife when she says, “I need space” ?
It sounds more like this. Read
this as fast and frantically as you can to get the real gist of it.
"I feel like I'm about to explode because I feel so much anxiety in my body and my thoughts are all over the place and I can't focus and I feel like I'll
never figure out who I am because I've never felt good enough and everyone seems so disappointed in me and I just can't relax because I feel like everyone needs me to take care of them...and I feel like I can't exhale because of the weight of being a mother, wife, caretaker and employee sits on my chest 24/7 and I'm not sleeping because my body aches and that pisses me off!...and YOU don't seem to understand ANY of this and if you do, well, it seems you don't really have any compassion because
you're so concerned about how MY feelings are making you feel and all I feel from you is disappointment and a 24/7 pressure to FIX ME so you can finally feel better but I just want you to back away and love me how I am right now and be a partner who quietly gets me, accepts me and helps me...and...and...I don't know anymore...you don't care anyway."
Complicated AF.
What the hell are you supposed to do about THAT?!
Here's the most important thing to know about her - or ANYONE - wanting space.
It's not about you. It's not something she is doing TO YOU. She is doing it FOR HERSELF.
We know. It feels intensely personal. It feels threatening.
Your world as you know it is being rocked.
And everything you thought you knew about her, your marriage, yourself and your future is now officially in the UNDECIDED
category.
And this UNCERTAINTY twists your guts into knots.
The twists in your guts are actually the intense discomfort of your loss of control.
And this discomfort is rooted in FEAR. Fear of the unknown. And fear that you just might actually be a horrible douchebag who totally screwed up his marriage and will end up as a lonely old man with a tattoo that says, "FAILURE" on your forehead.
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Lotta love, brother,
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