Hey brother!

My name is Mark Drezga and along with my fellow GG2GM coach, Garrett Prettyman; we developed the Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course to help men become powerful leaders in all aspects of their lives.

Part of this process involves digging into what makes a leader and what makes others want to follow.

This may be where many you have already begun doing your own research and growth.

It's the place where most start looking to become better men, both at work and at home.

We all know about practices and techniques focusing on:

• Creating rapport
• Validating
• Praising
• Problem Solving
• Communication....

Most people understand all of these things intrinsically and it does make sense to work on them to create the leadership that comes with being a strong self-reliant masculine man.

However, something that is often missed is what Garrett and I consider KEY ingredients: 

DIRECTION and MOTIVATION

A man without direction and a clear understanding of where he is headed and why he wants to go there, is not a leader.

He is a manager.

He tries to manage people’s distress, expectations and emotional turmoil.

He focuses on fixing their problems while putting out spot-fires and affirming their reason for wanting to follow him.

In a marriage this will look like:

• Constantly trying to defuse situations with your wife to avoid anyone having "big and scary" feelings.
• Immediately jumping in to "fix" problems that only you can seem to see.
• Always asking your wife where she wants to go and what she wants to do; because for her to be happy she needs to be amused and entertained, right?

That sounds like a whole bunch of drama to me!

More importantly, it doesn't even work.

But you know that already, don't you?

Of course you do.

That's why you feel like the goal posts of your life are constantly moving.

Because THEY ARE.

The goals are being moved by everybody and everything outside of you.

• Your wife
• Your circumstances
• Your kids

Everyone and everything seem to have an influence on where you are going, and for most guys it results in giving up and reverting back to being a little boy that is constantly waiting to be told what to do. 

For your wife, that means confusion and doubt and a reliance on her motivation to keep things going.

For the man inside you, it feels like you have no control over your life or your moods and emotions.

Your motivation must be your own and no-one else's for it to be potent and powerful.

When it comes from outside of you, you are a slave to it.

When it comes from inside you, you are the master of it and it's like rocket-fuel and contagious to others.

An internally motivated man is headed in his own direction regardless of whether someone else wants to come along.

He's going and nothing is going to stop him!

He WANTS to go and that's all the motivation he needs to move in that direction.

He is free to invite others along for the ride (but only if he wants them there), and if they decline, HE IS STILL GOING!

This course was created out of many conversations that Garrett and I have had over the span of many years.

It was during one of these regular conversations that we had an epiphany:

Mark:

"Hey, these calls are great way to clear my mind and hear a different perspective on some of these thoughts that I tend to get lost in."

Garrett:

"Yeah, it helps to bounce ideas around and have someone call out my bullshit!"

Mark:

"Since we're meeting up regularly anyway, do you want to invite other guys to join us?" 

Garrett:

"Hell Yes! We are meeting up regardless of who joins anyway!"

And so here we are brother.

Consider this your invitation to join us in deep conversations, heart-centered challenges, and loving honesty from two guys who know what you are going through and realize the importance of doing what you want and creating invitations for others to join you along the way!

How You Can Make A Full 360 In You're Marriage?

This article only touched the tip of the iceberg of what it means to be a masculine man in your relationship. 

Joining our Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course is how you can learn the full process.

If you feel like your at the mercy of everything in your life then you should join us!

Leadership relies on the confidence to move in the direction that YOU want to go. 

We created this course to help you find where that is and give you a kick up the ass to help you get there. 

Click HERE to pay and save your spot.  

Much love brother!

Mark Drezga

Associate Coach with Goodguys2Greatmen

www.markdrezga.com