Hey brother!

My name is Mark Drezga and along with my fellow GG2GM coach, Garrett Prettyman, we developed the Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course to help men become powerful leaders in all aspects of their lives.

Today I want to speak to you about becoming a man that is clear about what he wants and is on the path to creating it.

Would you like to know what the secret ingredient is?

Here's a hint: I've already told you!

Worked it out yet?

That's alright brother, it took some wise men to point it out to me also.

KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT

That's the key ingredient.

Sounds simple right?

Well, for us men, it would seem the answer is, no.

Most of the time when I ask guys what they want, they start by giving me a lengthy diatribe with lots of:

• I don't want____________________________
• I really hate it when_____________________
• If only she would stop doing_______________
• I can't stand it when_____________________

Etc.

While they are telling me, they often become animated and lively. For some of them, it's the first time in ages they have felt some passion about anything for a very long time.

It's a shame that their focus and energy is pointed in the wrong direction.

Knowing what you don't want is NOT the same as knowing what you do want.

The fact that these guys still can't answer the question even after I point out the difference is proof of this.

The difference is: moving towards and backing away.

When you focus intensely on all that you don't want, you are constantly in a state of AVOIDANCE.

You are constantly backing away and trying to get away from things.

You are always at the mercy of everything and everyone else.

You feel like you have no power to make a decision, because if you don't like something you immediately try to get away from it or change it.

It is so tiring and un-productive; not to mention it doesn't work.

Your thoughts are what create your reality.

By constantly focusing on things that you don't want, you only see more of it everywhere.

There is a fancy name for this:

The Frequency Illusion (also known as the Baader–Meinhof phenomenon).

 It is a cognitive bias in which you notice a specific concept, word, or product more frequently after recently becoming aware of it.

Ever noticed when you are looking at buying a particular car that they seem to appear everywhere?

Yeah, that's what that is.

The same goes with the negative things in your life.

The more energy and attention you put into focusing on them, the more apparent they will become.

The more apparent they become, the more likely you are to notice them and so on..

This can be really annoying but can also be used to your benefit.

Just because you are seeing lots of negative doesn't mean the positives don't exist.

They do!

You just need to recalibrate where you focus your attention.

This recalibration begins with gaining clarity around your wants.

Most importantly, these are YOUR wants.

Not your wife's.

Not your family's.

Not your friend's.

YOURS.

Without this clarity, what you want escapes your attention which is busy focusing on avoiding things.

You become the guy that just waits around for the life he desires to magically fall in his lap and gets pushed around by his circumstances.

With this clarity, you see opportunities to create and move towards what you do want.

You are more grateful for what you have and find that you need less to be satisfied and generous.

By directing your attention on what you want, you create a new awareness to be able to find it more easily.

For the guys in our course, this is the first thing we cover.

We work with you to formulate your values around what you REALLY want and not just what you think you deserve.

No more waiting around for things to happen to you.

You quickly become a CREATOR of the life that you want.

This will do wonders for your confidence as you quickly discover how to shift your focus and in turn your demeanor towards a life that brings joy and satisfaction.

And you'll be much more fun to be around at parties ;)

Joining our Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course is how you can learn the full process.

If you are sick of seeing crap everywhere then you should join us!

Your reality really is what you focus on.

We created this course to help you be a man that can tell the world what he wants and notice when it responds!

Click HERE to pay and save your spot. 

Much love brother!

Mark Drezga

Associate Coach with Goodguys2Greatmen

www.markdrezga.com