Should You Stay Or Leave Your Loveless Marriage?

Published: Sun, 02/04/24

Hey brother,

Are you feeling stuck in marriage “Limbo”?

Take this quick test to find out. If you say YES to one or more of these, you are in the land of Limbo.

I feel like I have NO idea what she is thinking about me or us.

I feel like I’m just waiting for another shoe to drop and then she’s outta here.

I feel I can’t say or do anything whatsoever to break through her ice cold wall.

I feel like she’s a zombie and can’t even answer a simple damn question.

I feel like I’m stuck in neutral revving my motor but we’re going nowhere.

I feel terrified by the blank divorce papers she’s kept in her nightstand for 3 months now!

How did you do?

If you’re like virtually every man who comes into our GG2GM community, you scored nearly 100% on that test.

Congrats!

Seriously, I know how horrible the feeling of limbo can be. It’s chronic, daily uncertainty.

It’s a dark cloud of fear of the unknown.

The sadness that grips your heart when you think of the rejection, abandonment, disrespect and dismissiveness is overwhelming.

And the feelings that come from those thoughts create a perfect pair of concrete shoes that have you stuck in place with no foreseeable way out.

Before I tell you another way to think about this, see if this straight-talking barn video answers any questions.

Should You Stay Or Leave Your Loveless Marriage?

Notice that all the test questions start with “I FEEL”. That’s on purpose.

I want you to learn how stinking powerful your feelings are and why they have you fooled into thinking you’re in Limbo Land.

Those feelings seem non-negotiable and unfixable.

Those feelings will make you actually believe you are stuck…victimized…hopelessly at her mercy.

You shouldn’t believe everything you feel.

And you shouldn’t trust every thought that comes through your head.

We teach men about the concept of AGENCY.

AGENCY is the capacity, condition, or state of acting or of exerting power

Simply put...and don't get mad at this...

Your current state of "limbo" is your choice.

And I want to help you understand you have better choices at this very moment.

While there are inescapable facts and circumstances about your wife's behavior and actions, these do NOT mean you are in limbo!

We teach men everyday about the power of changing the meaning you give those facts and circumstances.

We teach you how to get back in your own lane and feel more in control of your responses, your thinking and your emotions.

This is what QUICKLY helps you see that "limbo" is only true when you have zero power to change and zero power to take personal action. (that's agency, brother)

The video above gave you a few examples, but there is so much more to learn. So much more to talk about.

With just a few tweaks to your thinking and a few bold decisions you will instantly exit Limbo Land. Forever.

And you'll find out it never really existed in the first place.

Of course this might sound nearly impossible to you right now.

I've learned that it IS impossible without other high quality men in your life to believe you perhaps more than you believe in yourself at the moment.

I want to invite you to join some incredibly amazing men who have walked in your shoes - or are walking in them now.

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As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

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