Love Being A Man
One thing I'm passionate about is empowering men to take life by the horns and create their dreams.
Yet, many men quickly lose any sense of confidence when it comes to tension and conflict with their wives.
One major reason for this is due to BRAIN differences!
This may be why many men tell us their wives can talk circles around them in an
argument and always seem to be 5 steps ahead!
That's cool, though. Good for her. She's got a gift you don't have. Don't fight against it. Appreciate it...and realize that YOUR brain has a gift of it's own.
Your brain likes to process data more slowly...at an even pace in a way that makes logical sense to you. The data your brain processes needs to pass through various phases of contemplation in your mind before making conclusions. It's a gift and a strength, brother!
And it's THAT gift that might make her feel like you're not listening to her or just staring at her like a deer in the headlights.
This is nothing for you to be ashamed about. Own it.
The path to confidence is about being comfortable with who we are authentically and not trying to live by other people's standards or abilities.
There are two key ingredients to face marriage distress with confidence:
- Be a confident husband by knowing you're OK
- Be a confident husband by trusting your intentions
Face Marriage Distress With Confidence Knowing You're OK
If our wife is talking circles around us in a discussion, she's doing what people with her brain are supposed to be doing.
She's
OK.
We're OK.
Everyone is OK.
If our logical brain tells us she's way off base or that she isn't seeing things clearly, take a breath...Our brain is just doing what it's supposed to do, everything is still ok.
A man who knows deep down that he's OK can face chaos with confidence.
The Vikings were unstoppable in battle because they believed they couldn't die except on the day the gods had chosen.
In other words, they believed they would be OK no matter what.
The Vikings had what we call spiritual confidence, and it made them a fearless force to reckon with!
Face Marriage Distress With Confidence By Trusting Your Intentions
How other people decide to
interpret us is their choice.
Honestly, others can never with 100% certainty know what our intentions are, only we can.
When we trust our intentions, we can let go of needing to be right, better, or understood by
others.
For me personally, If I'm not breaking new ground in areas of location independence, time, or financial freedom, I feel like I'm half-assing life.
These are the hills I'm
willing to die on.
I know that I'm disserving the universe of my most potent version of myself if I don't pursue these routes because they are what energizes me.
What do you need to create, face, or apply yourself towards to be
an energized, inspired, powerful man?
Your intentions are honorable when they align with your standards for creating what energizes you.
We can relax
in our intentions to be a confident man.
How You Can Take A BIG Step Towards Confidence This Week
The next round of this course starts in March.
Now is the time to join!
3 spots are already taken, only 5 spots remain.
Use promo code CONFIDENCE to get a 10% discount (offer expires end of February).
Trusting our intentions requires a first step: Knowing our values.
When you join the course, Mark & I will teach you how to narrow your values down to a few key components of your energizing masculine frame.
Your masculine frame will enable you to face marriage distress with confidence by being clear, strong, and sure of yourself.
See you on the other side brother,
Garrett Prettyman
