You might think, "I love you!" are the 3 most important words a woman wants to hear.
Sometimes...yes.
But if you've been in a downward spiral of negative emotions, that probably won't
help.
If she has said:
"I need space...I need time alone." or...
"I love you but I'm not IN LOVE with you." or...
"I think we might need to separate." then...
Then I suggest you simply VALIDATE her. Don't fight her.
Don't challenge her. Don't question her.
In fact, I think you actually understand and can empathize with what she's saying.
Things HAVE been difficult. It HAS been hard to be emotionally enmeshed with each other. And some days...it IS hard to feel in love.
So...why not simply admit it to her? She has a point. And you actually do understand her feelings.
The most appropriate words right now are, "I hear you."
Yep. So easy. So kind. And so what she would rather hear right now.
We all like to feel validated. We don't want to be talked out of our feelings. We simply want a little empathy...and a little connection.
*****
In Module Two, you will learn:
- Why you argue about stupid shit and how to stop it cold
- How to confront the sex issue and why arguing about it is making things worse
- How to
stop trying to be right and start being more effective when you speak to her
- How to dance with the drama and be a sexier man in the process
- The four marriage killers you must stop immediately
- Stinkin' thinkin': how to
stop the flow of negativity and start creating more connection
- How to become almost cocky in the face of conflict (in a really good way)
- The secret about why she isn't even trying and why that's okay... for now
There are exactly 12 hours left to get this course at the 50%
discount.
And this is the last notice I'll send so you don't feel like I'm pestering you. (See how I just validated you?
😁)
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Of course you do.
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