Is Your Marriage Faulty? Is It Fixable?

Published: Fri, 10/27/23

(If you're in Gmail this email may be messed up at the bottom - just click the "View entire message" link at the bottom to read the whole thing).

Hey brother,

I need to replace the heater core in my Dodge 2500 truck. It's leaking smelly radiator fluid onto the carpet and the defroster just fogs up the windshield.

Gotta do it.

Apparently this is a really common problem on the 2002 models...along with the self-destructing plastic dash board on these trucks.

So I did what we all do. I Googled it. Then I watched about 20 videos on the 125 step-by-step procedure for dashboard removal and part replacement and re-installation.

Holy crap. It's a 6 hour job.

Then I start looking for "options". I was hoping to find "easier" things like radiator STOP LEAK and other totally ineffective ways to avoid digging into the real problem.

What am I afraid of, you ask?

I'm afraid I can't do it. I'm afraid I'll break something else.

I'm concerned I'll get it apart and can't get it back together...and then I can't even drive it to the mechanic?

I'm afraid I'll look stupid.

Maybe I'll watch 20 more videos and just add radiator fluid and put an absorbent diaper on the floor.

I think about this issue when guys send me emails saying they've been binge watching our videos but never had the nerve to reach out. Even the simple act of sending me an email took months...sometimes years.

Too risky.

I get it. I've done this with coaches I've wanted to work with in the past.

I wasn't afraid of trusting them to help me. I was afraid I couldn't trust myself to follow through to get what I most wanted.

In this video I want to talk with you precisely about that.

“The journey starts with a single step—not with thinking about taking a step.”
~ Jeff Olson

The biggest obstacle to a man getting what he wants is to spend too much time thinking about it.

Confidence is not a prerequisite to taking action...it's a result.

This is why I recommend that you slow way down on the videos and self-help books until you've actually implemented ONE IDEA you've learned so far.

Don't get tangled up in self-help hell. 90% of the stuff we read is saying the same thing. This missing link is action.

And if you think your NEXT action step is to talk with someone who can help you, then do it.

There are people who have done what you want to accomplish and it's not weak to ask them for help. They've already made the mistakes necessary to help you avoid them. (which is why I have an appointment with my mechanic on Tuesday).

We do dozens of free consultation calls every month for men who are ready to take the next logical step.

I can make a guarantee for you right now.

I guarantee that the discomfort level of whatever relationship or marriage nightmare you're experiencing will be reduced from Level 10 to Level 5 in ONE HOUR.

I know this because I know when you speak to someone who has been in your shoes your fear and loneliness level always drops about 50%.

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Click this link to go to the Contact page on my site.

Fill out the unusually personal questions. (just answering these is an exercise in clarity)

Take the next step.

You'll learn something your dad never told you.

That's a promise.

Some other options you can take action on today are...

Free: Take Our Attractive Husband Self Assessment Here

Free: Go HERE to apply for a Free 90 minute "I Want Help Improving My Relationship" coaching call to learn exactly how you can start changing things tomorrow.

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$69 Monthly Subscription: Join Dan and I in our Men's Roundtable Group Coaching program. We meet three times per month for live group coaching and we support you in a powerful group of men facing the same issues you are. It's a $69 investment. Try it for one month.

$397 One-Time Payment: How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb is a self-paced course with me, Tim Wade, and a community of men learning how to lead when you've just heard, "I love you but I'm not in love with you" or "I want to separate or divorce."

As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

What have you got to lose?

With love, brother,

Steve & Dan

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