A common argument men get into is when they decide to tell their wife all about their men's group...all about a book they've read...or all about something they now realize they want to apologize
for.
The hidden agenda is nearly always to impress her, make her like you or to get some kind of positive attention or interaction.
And it will always backfire on you. Why? Because she simply
isn't ready to hear all about YOUR shit and heap praise on you for working on yourself.
When is the right time to talk about it with her?
Answer: Only when she asks you in a
genuinely honest, curious and compassionate way. (even then you'll need to be careful)
In other words, not for a long time.
Who do you tell?
We always say, "Take it to the men, brother."
We are the ones who welcome your thoughts, fears and epiphanies with an open heart and mind. We are safe.
When do you tell your wife?
Hell, maybe never.
A man can never TALK himself out of a situation he has BEHAVED himself into. (Credit: Stephen
Covey)
She would MUCH rather experience your work in the form of a subtle, consistent changed energy...a confident vibe...and a detached sense of self assurance. She doesn't want to validate you. It's not her job.
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