Hey brother,
Here's me about 15 years ago. What a dick.
Don't be a dick.
"Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, let the record show that last month the claimant has proven he has had sex 1.5 times total. According to the most recent studies by Johnson & Johnson, this is NOT NORMAL! Further, countless internet articles and videos attest to the fact that
he is indeed in a sexless marriage. And medical evidence shown in Exhibit A also proves that "blue balls" is a serious medical condition that can result in blindness and/or death! Therefore, and I conclude, the claimants wife hereby should be ordered to remedy said situation immediately before further damage is done!"
I
rest my case.
Now, I never said it that way...but you get the point.
The point is, arguing about your sex life is the least effective, least sensible and
least attractive thing you can ever do about the situation.
So stop it. I wish I had an older dude there for me 15 years ago drilling this into my head.
I didn't know any better. And THAT'S the problem.
Most of us don't know any better. We don't know what else to do...or say...or THINK.
What would be something that is much more effective, sensible and ATTRACTIVE?
That's exactly where we go in Module 2 - Lesson 2 in How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb.
This course is the best and ONLY resource for men that speaks clearly, plainly and honestly about what is REALLY going on in your head and how to become a
more confident, calm and attractive man.
Arguing about sex is the exact opposite of that.
