Confident men are described in dozens of different ways.
But nobody ever used these 3 simple, but amazingly powerful, words.
Most people try to define a confident man using external traits, like the way he outwardly looks, talks and behaves.
Those things are a RESULT of something much deeper within him.
And because it's easier for most guys to modify their EXTERNAL impression, they tend to avoid the more simple and more permanent internal modifications.
First, a consistently confident man has achieved an internal vibration of CALM.
Outwardly, other people experience him as emotionally predictable, grounded and trustable. He's safe because he doesn't show the juvenile temper and over-reaction of other men.
Internally, he has a
firm grip on reality and the fact that nothing...I mean nothing is really a threat to him. He sees conflict as
mere noise and personal attacks as playground insults.
Second, a consistently confident man is purposely DELIBERATE in his manner, his decisions, his choices, and his responses.
Outwardly, other people experience him as wise, patient and reasonable. He's trustable because he isn't influenced by false urgency and isn't prone to knee jerk reactions.
Internally, he has a firm grip on how HE likes to get things done. He values precision of thinking and process. He knows at his core that "slow is smooth and smooth is fast". He sees false urgency and meaningless deadlines as obstacles to quality results.
Third, a consistently confident man is noticeably PLEASED.
Outwardly, other people experience him as light-hearted, easily amused and fair-minded. He doesn't take himself too seriously and is able to sit comfortably with others even when they are not so pleased. Again, he is seen as safe, kind and respectful.
Inwardly, he has a
firm grip on the bigger picture. Speed bumps and disagreements don't threaten him or cause him to lose focus on the prize.
He knows at his core that his pervasive sense of daily well-being is his secret power. And only he can
create that power.
Year-end offer:
- Get
one full, 90-minute, one-on-one coaching session focused on getting you to "calm, deliberate and pleased" much sooner than later.
- Get your personal "Confident Man Assessment" score and over 40 support
videos
- Get two free Kindle books chosen
specifically for you and your situation
- Get a free introduction email with your coach before your session and one 30-day follow-up coaching support email.
I've never made this offer before and I'm not sure why
I'm making it now.
It just feels right for this time of year which is usually stressful for all of us and,..I like making up stuff to help men.
This level of personal attention and coaching would normally cost $500. The holiday price is $350.
Your session can be scheduled at any time before or after the 1st of the year and you will be matched up with either me or one of our Certified GG2GM coaches.
How do you do this?
Simply hit reply now. (let's bypass the
contact form thing)
Tell me about yourself in 1000 words or less. Tell me what you want. Tell me what's in your way. Tell me what being calm, deliberate and pleased will do for you?
And, oh, I made a couple videos for you with
Chief today to explain what calm, deliberate and pleased means to me.
