The Only Way A Man Attracts His Wife Back

Published: Tue, 12/12/23

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Hey brother,

Last year a 125,000 acre wildfire was about 3 miles from burning down my house, barn and the "He Shed/She Shed" you've seen me building.

Yeah, really.

I ended up hanging out 40 miles away in the basement of a friend with my girlfriend in tow along with 2 dogs, 3 cats and 2 horses. I'm glad I have good friends I can lean on for help.

It was also good to have a grocery store 8 minutes away and about 25 pubs just 10 minutes away for the first time in my life. And I could still have my coaching sessions and get other projects done.

If the house burnt down, I had insurance. It would have been a huge pain but it wouldn't have been the end of the world.

You might say, "Damn, you handled that well!" And you would be right.

And so would have you. Am I right?

I bet you typically respond to hardship, difficulty, challenges and unfortunate situations like a WARRIOR. You face it head on - make plans - make stuff happen and plow through. Nothing scares you that much.

Even when things are 100% out of your control, you learn quickly you can RESPOND with clear, decisive action and take the lead. And when you do that you feel better, calmer and more in control of the stuff you can control.

So if us dudes are that good with most of the inconveniences of life, why do we completely lose it when facing rejection or the possibility of divorce?

It's the ONE FRONTIER where a man can feel not only powerless...but entirely incapable of thinking clearly. The threat of failure, abandonment and upheaval of his "master plan" creates paralysis.

He can't respond to anything. Everything feels like an emotional reaction...24/7.

And that's when we normally first hear from him.

Watch this short video about what happens next.

The Only Way A Man Attracts His Wife Back

“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.”
Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Viktor Frankl wrote about his experience in a Nazi concentration camp.

He was stripped of everything a man could possibly be stripped of.

Even then he came to the most liberating realization that would change the rest of his life and his profession.

It was the realization - and responsibility - that our secret power is to "choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way."

When it comes to the discomfort of being rejected and facing possible divorce, you have the same secret power.

Your inherent sense of security, confidence, happiness and inner strength is a state of mind and being that is ever present. Even when you forget that you must realize it is a CHOICE.

Security, confidence, happiness and inner strength was never meant to come from your wife or your marriage. It's already within you.

We teach men how to FIND THEIR INHERENT VALUE AND CONFIDENCE even in the discomfort of a crumbling relationship.

We help them realize that this choice is a prerequisite to a happy life as a married man or a single man.

And we teach them that the only road to a second chance in their marriage is along the path of secure, confident, happy, strong man.

This is the road we must find no matter what.

There is no other choice.

If you're ready for deep, caring conversation about getting back on the right path, submit our contact form. Fill it out completely and get as detailed and vulnerable as you dare!

Either I, Dan or one of my certified coaches will reply quickly to set up a free, no strings conversation to help you slow down and refocus on what is really important.

Or if you're not ready to speak to us directly, we have plenty of options for you to keep learning through our memberships:

Free: Take Our Attractive Husband Self Assessment Here

$69 Monthly Subscription: Join Dan and I in our Men's Roundtable Group Coaching membership. We meet three times per month for live group coaching and we support you in a powerful group of men facing the same issues you are. It's a $69 investment. You get INSTANT access to 5 years of recorded sessions! Try it for one month. What have you got to lose?

$397 One-Time Payment: How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb is a self-paced course with me, Tim Wade, and a community of men learning how to lead when you've just heard, "I love you but I'm not in love with you" or "I want to separate or divorce."

As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

With love, brother,

Steve & Dan

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Steven Horsmon

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