What Causes A Wife To Lose Interest In Sex With You?

Published: Mon, 12/04/23

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Hey brother,

I saw this question in one of our private Facebook groups today.

An unsatisfied, unhappy and unfulfilled husband expressed his desire to make his wife be more turned on by him. He wanted a great sex life with her! (who doesn't, right?)

Then another man in the group answered with a simple question.

Do you want a great sex life or a great life that includes sex?

Sometimes a powerful question is more important than a powerful answer.

It points to a very simple "punch in the nose" reality. This is a punch that keeps coming back for more every time we forget this simple truth. (and boy is my nose sore)

Unsatisfied, unhappy and unfulfilled men don't have much sex.

And it's common for us to believe that if she only had more desire and passion for us, everything would be better.

As I explain in this video, we can never get enough of what we don't really need to be happy.

What Causes A Wife To Lose Interest In Sex With You?

Being a satisfied, happy, fulfilled man is a place we must learn to come from.

Here's another punch in the nose.

We have no business griping about a lack of turn-on from others if we aren't turned on within ourselves.

Turn-on is an energy of excitement, enthusiasm and passion for something.

If we lack this turn-on in our own sense of self-respect, nobody else can be turned on by us.

If we lack this turn-on in our career or business, our sexual appeal will be lukewarm at best.

If we lack this turn-on in how we parent our kids or engage with our friends and family, how can we expect to turn-on any woman?

TURN-ON is an inside job and it's the number one variable affecting your wife's ability to feel turned on by you.

In other words, you must be a man who is more focused on leading a great life that includes sex than one who is simply focused on having a great sex life.

Here's what a recent coaching client just emailed to me:

"My wife and I have been married for almost 12 years and for the last two, we have been really struggling to productively deal with my anger, depression and anxiety due to my sexual frustration at the lack of intimacy in our marriage. I am very successful professionally and in all other areas, my life is great….yet I have fallen into the cycle of letting my mojo and confidence be filled ONLY through sex with my wife. Thank you, Thank You, Thank You for reminding me of who I really am and helping me kill that annoying, needy version of me."

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As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

With love, brother,

Steve & Dan

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