What if being secure and self-assured was actually an option?

As I've said in other videos, a healthy relationship is NOT a simple matter of two broken souls gingerly licking each other's childhood wounds.  It's not healthy to have to constantly soothe each other.

Yes, it's important for a relationship to be a safe place for empathy, compassion and vulnerability.  We SHOULD be able to share our scary stuff with each other.  And we shouldn't expect to be shamed for having insecure thoughts and feelings.

The problem is when we believe that it's NORMAL to live in a chronic state of insecurity and neediness.  And it's a death sentence to the relationship to believe your partner should accept the role of your "Chief Wound Licker".

No relationship can survive a chronic, persistent and nagging energy of insecurity.  It will exhaust the person who is expected to pacify every single insecure thought and feeling you have.

What if you had a choice?

I mean, if you could choose between living in a two-way wound licking party every day OR simply becoming consistently happy and secure, which would you choose? 

If you choose the latter, you're in the right place.  I want to invite you into a conversation that very well could transform your next decade of life.

There are many FREE things you can do to get started.

This ain't no sales pitch.

This is a lifestyle.  Your lifestyle.