How To Feel More Manly Today

Published: Fri, 10/20/23

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Hey brother,

On a scale of 1 to 10, with 10 being the most horrible, scary experience you can imagine, what is your current level of FEAR of divorce?

We ask this question during coaching sessions with men who are gripped with a paralysis. They feel stuck in limbo with no certainty about their marriage, their wife's attraction, devotion...or her fidelity.

It's this fear that is keeping them from feeling strong, confident and valuable as a man.

It's this fear that is making them jump through hoop after hoop trying to make her happy and to save his marriage.

But what they learn is this.

Their level of fear is nothing more than a deep seated story about being a failure and about being all alone. And that story is patently false.

Above all other coaching advice I give a man to reprogram his fearful thoughts and false beliefs I tell him to ask for help from other great men.

There is NO SUBSTITUTE (including your marriage) for the love, trust and unconditional support you can get through male friendships.

In this video I talk a bit about the responsibility for making friendships happen and taking charge of connecting with other men you care about and respect.

You're not a failure...and you're not alone

It's important we hear this message from other men. And if you're not yet in a position to say it to yourself, you must have someone you trust and respect in your life to remind you.

Here is the new program you will be running in your head:

1. I'm not terrified...I just think I am.

2. I'm okay and I'm not going to die.

3. This whole situation is meant to make me stronger and push me to being more courageous.

4. My fearful thinking and behavior is the worst possible place for me to improve myself and my marriage.

5. I need to stop focusing on what I think I need from my wife to feel okay within myself.

6. I am going to start building better friendships with men and that starts with asking for help and being a better friend

7. Read numbers 1-3 again.

There is only one way to rebuild your self-respect and regain the feeling of mojo you once had.

Connect with men who respect themselves and have reclaimed their mojo.

If you're like most men you've had your head down and your nose to the grindstone.

You've been laser focused on supporting your family, being a dutiful husband and involved dad.

And this means you haven't had time to maintain the strong friendships you had years ago.

If it feels like I'm rubbing salt into a wound...good. That's exactly the feeling that got ME started years ago!

It's time to take that stinging feeling in your gut and turn it into action.

Do something just for you. And if you want an immediate solution to meeting some of the best men on this planet...then hear are some great ideas which can help you immediately.

Free: Take Our Attractive Husband Self Assessment Here

Free: Go HERE to apply for a Free "I Want My Mojo Back" coaching call to learn exactly how you can start changing things tomorrow.

$495 Urgent Coaching Session: If you're facing a crisis right now, and urgently need support to know how to respond without making things much worse, schedule an urgent single 90-minute laser-focused personal coaching session here.

$69 Monthly Subscription: Join Dan and I in our Men's Roundtable Group Coaching program. We meet three times per month for live group coaching and we support you in a powerful group of men facing the same issues you are. It's a $69 investment. Try it for one month.

$397 One-Time Payment: How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb is a self-paced course with me, Tim Wade, and a community of men learning how to lead when you've just heard, "I love you but I'm not in love with you" or "I want to separate or divorce."

As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

What have you got to lose?

With love, brother,

Steve & Dan

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