How To Stop Feeling So Unhappy In Your Marriage

Published: Mon, 10/16/23

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Hey brother,

I'm not really interested in your "feelings".

Yeah, I know being a man is tough. Being in a relationship is tough.

But all of it is tougher when you're being yanked around by your feelings on a daily basis.

Part of being a mature, confident and clear headed man is knowing that while your "feelings" are normal and healthy, they are NOT your reality.

Becoming a master of your emotional world demands that you change your relationship with your "feelings". This means you're going to have to change your relationship with your "thoughts".

Here's the problem.

Most insecure, nervous and unhappy people have a habit of "living the feeling of their thinking".

What's that mean?

It's means they allow their random thoughts, beliefs and projections to drive an endless parade of negative emotions.

They feel like they are a passenger in a roller coaster of "feeling" and have no particular agency or responsibility for changing the thinking at the root of their constant anxious, angry and/or unhappy reactions to life.

Is this you? Who else do you know who might be living this reality?

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I know. This may sound strange to you.

But this wisdom is thousands of years old!

The most confident, calm, wise, clear headed and HAPPY people in the world are those who have come to terms with their own ability - and responsibility - for changing the WAY THEY THINK about the cards they are dealt every day.

This is why I don't really want to "talk about your feelings".

I want to talk about your THINKING!

So I will...in this video.

Here's something NEW to think which I guarantee will change the way you feel.

How To Stop Feeling So Unhappy In Your Marriage

"The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another."
~ Sir William Jones

We have dozens of complimentary consultations every month with men who have been afraid of what they are FEELING.

They use words like lonely, scared, rejected, dismissed, ignored, replaced, inadequate, frustrated, uncertain and confused.

We will spend one to two hours speaking with you to help you immediately relax and focus. We demonstrate the power of having a wise mentor in your corner to challenge your emotional roller coaster and to teach you how to do a better job of thinking about your thinking.

This is our favorite reaction.

"Dude, I just got more out of this call than I've gotten from 3 years of freakin' therapy!! Why isn't anyone telling men this stuff?!"

What stuff?

1. We talk about what's really happening with your marriage, wife and sex life.

2. We tell you things about being a man your father never told you...and how you've been avoiding the most powerful part of being a man.

3. We take you through an exercise to experience the thrill of changing your perspective and HOW YOU'RE THINKING at this very moment.

That's when you immediately FEEL something different than just an hour earlier.

Yeah. I know. Sounds crazy. I love this stuff and it's why I can't stop writing and talking about it. I want that for you too, brother.

Think about it. Perhaps the most courageous, decisive and masculine thing you can do right now is asking for a chat.

Strong men ask for help. Everyone else sits around waiting for something to change.

Here are some options for you to get started today:

Free: Take Our Attractive Husband Self Assessment Here

Free: Go HERE to apply for a Free "Start Feeling Happy Again" coaching call to learn exactly how you can start changing things tomorrow.

$495 Urgent Coaching Session: If you're facing a crisis right now, and urgently need support to know how to respond without making things much worse, schedule an urgent single 90-minute laser-focused personal coaching session here.

$69 Monthly Subscription: Join Dan and I in our Men's Roundtable Group Coaching program. We meet three times per month for live group coaching and we support you in a powerful group of men facing the same issues you are. It's a $69 investment. Try it for one month.

$397 One-Time Payment: How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb is a self-paced course with me, Tim Wade, and a community of men learning how to lead when you've just heard, "I love you but I'm not in love with you" or "I want to separate or divorce."

As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

What have you got to lose?

With love, brother,

Steve & Dan

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