How Masculine Confidence Changed A Man's Relationship
Over and over again, Mark & I see men save their marriage by no longer trying to save the
marriage.
"How is this possible??", You might ask.
Well, what better case study to read than a report straight from the horse's mouth?!
This week, a client sent this in:
"I wanted to personally thank you and Mark for your teachings on masculine confidence. In the past month, my wife and I have rekindled our
marriage and a lot of it has to do with becoming more confident and calm ( the mountain lion). She has told me that she could see a different man in me and it was something she could not live without. We have a solid connection now with a bright future ahead of us, obviously, the work is never done and I look forward to future sessions with you. My marriage was on the thinnest ice it was ever on and I can't thank you two enough for helping me through the hardest fight of my life! Your
program works!"
There are some things in life we don't get to have until we can first be it ourselves.
Mark & I saw this man initially join the course beaten down and out of options.
His wife mirrored
that version of himself right back at him.
He was scared to turn right or left lest he scare off his uncertain wife.
Once he joined the course, he didn't half-ass it!
He understood HIS happiness, HIS mojo, HIS spark, and HIS clarity of direction in life were HIS responsibility.
Once he took
charge like this, his wife was off the hook to provide those things!
To her, this felt like a release of pressure.
He felt a new kind of mojo growing.
Her emotions, her whims, and her uneasiness around him no longer rattled him.
He led the relationship to a better place by confidently and
consistently staying in his masculine frame of mind.
In time, she began to reflect a more trusting persona as he gained greater inner security.
Mark & I teach you how to become this kind of man in our course!
Confidently Facing A Women When She's Become Her Own Man
Last fall, One of our clients had to face his wife's masculine vibe when his crippling insecurities had driven her tight into her shell.
His easy-going, indirect, people-pleasing approach left his wife feeling like she didn't have a champion in her corner.
Like many women do when they feel unsafe, she stepped up as the man in the house.
At first, she enjoyed taking the reins!
But like we see so many times in this dynamic, the burden of responsibility eventually takes its toll on the woman.
When she steps into her masculine energy and takes charge of planning the family's weekend, setting boundaries with the intrusive inlaws, confronting the rude mailman, or having to create her happiness AND her husband's, she hits burn-out.
Our client's initial response was to blame HER for how the relationship felt and to communicate his expectations for her by sulking and avoiding her emotions.
Things started to change for him when he learned how to confidently lead the experiences he wanted to have and to face hard conversations.
He saw his wife's behaviors with new eyes and no longer took her emotions personally.
He became self-reliant in creating his own
happiness.
The depth of connection he has with his wife now is crazy!
His boundaries and massive self-respect even eradicated the dull, obligation sex they used to have.
Doing this work didn't remove relationship difficulty from his life but it gave him the courage to face it.
How YOU Can Become More Confident
When our deepest values are clarified, we gain a solid reference point that clears up emotional confusion and relationship complexity.
I promise this course will make your relationships more simple, achievable, and exciting since you'll know how to LEAD what you want with confidence.
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info and to secure your spot.
See you there!
Garrett & Mark
Associate coaches at GoodGuys2GreatMen
