When we're struggling in our lives and relationships, we can find ourselves in a lonely, dark and fearful place and we feel pretty isolated.
But the truth is that ALL of us have got some things that we’re afraid of. We all have some things in our life that make us feel uncomfortable, that we don't want to talk about or confront.
We numb the pain with our drug of choice whether that's alcohol, video games, cigarettes, exercise or whatever.
Sometimes there are things you want to say, that you’ve always wanted to say, but you don't.
You might have a dream in your mind about what you want to be or what you want to do and the kind of relationship you want to have, or the job you dream about, or the money you want to make…but you’re not saying it out loud.
We play small and avoid looking in the direction of our discomfort.
We let the fear control our potential.
And the sad thing is that most men never do say what they want to say or make the move toward a new future that they desire.
This is where spending time with high quality men is essential.
Men who will help you push through the tough parts.
Because they get it. They've felt what you're feeling.
They've been through what you're going through
and they can see the pieces you're missing.
It's a difficult edge for us to push though. Connecting with men. Really connecting, not just small talk about sports or cars or fishing. Talking openly with someone about what you feel and where you're struggling.
There's a reason it feels hard. There's a reason it feels scary.
It's called fear.
Fear of rejection. Fear of being laughed at. Fear of judgement and criticism. But the truth is, we ALL feel those feelings of fear.
In fact all those responses you fear above are fearful responses in the person you're talking to.
Yes, they're just as fearful as you.
So with all this fear around...how can you get to the point when you’re slowly and surely, pushing yourself outside your comfort zone?
Because that’s where all your growth and opportunities are going to be.
And I'm here to tell you that YOU are one of those men you seek. You have the potential to feel the fear and do it anyway.
You have the power to create the life you want.
And the key is connecting with other men.
Great men who've got your back.
A great man can tell you when you need to back off a little. When you need to lean in more. When to push through the difficulties when everything else is telling you to give up.
A great man can help you understand how to make the very smallest little changes in the way you're showing up, that will have the most exponential impact on your results.
In every area of your life.
It’s amazing when a man makes one small change...everything changes for the better.
Real change and exponential improvements only happen when we push ourselves into the zone of discomfort.
We have to know when it’s time to take a stand, speak up and risk pissing other people off and we have to know how to respond to situations that might otherwise control our destiny.
This takes a commitment to learning, internalizing and PRACTICING a whole new mindset. New operating principles. Brand new mojo.
And we’ll never find that just in a book, video or podcast.
What worked for me is what will work for you.
Spending dedicated time with other initiated men and committing yourself to a process of personal change.
This is how we get the fire back in our belly. This is how our enthusiasm for life is reborn. And there’s nothing else we would rather do than to spend some quality time helping you do that.
We’ve developed a reliable process that connects you with other amazing men and it doesn’t hurt a bit.
Actually, we end up laughing together more than anything else.
You have to talk to other men, because you DO have a need to talk about this stuff. You need to communicate, to vent and be vulnerable, and talk about your fears.
It’s about the incredible breakthroughs we make when men team up and work together.
It’s about feeling heard and understood maybe for the first time ever.
It’s about that calm, confident, peaceful feeling we get when we see the truth about our masculine power and ability to live what we dream.
And it’s about creating new connections and a support network most men don’t have before they die.
Our UK retreat starts in 3 weeks.
We’ve already got some amazing guys from around the world booked in, You need to meet these guys. And they need to meet you.
We want you to feel like a strong, calm, confident and clear-headed man.
We want you to relax in situations that make normal men crazy.
We want you to grin with the knowledge you’re being who you want to be and you’re creating the life and love you want.
Next step?
Then click the button to reserve your place or email Dan directly if you want to get involved and need a personal payment plan.
Is this a sales pitch?
Hell yes it’s a sales pitch!
We love what we do. We love watching men transform and become happy, confident men with swagger and a smile.
We love helping them stand up tall in their relationship and start becoming the man and partner they have always wanted to be.
That’s what we're selling.
We believe in YOU more than you may believe in yourself right now.
Sometimes that’s all it takes to help a man find that switch and start making exponential improvements.
If you want to learn how to start "Feeling More Confident & Masculine As A Man", start with joining Dan & I in England in 3 weeks time.
