The 3 Red Flags That Indicate Your Inner Boy Is Doing The Talking
Every man has an "inner boy" who comes out to play when we are triggered by insecurity. We try to cover him up by getting big...getting loud...sounding smart...making threats and/or simply shutting down.
The 3 Red Flags this is happening to you are:
- Frequent anger at others...and toward yourself
- Constant judgment and criticism of nearly anyone who disappoints you
- Habitual defensiveness anytime you feel attacked or blamed
It's not enough to tell a man, "Well, just don't do that!"
Those red flags are very normal and natural result of fear and insecurity.
And there's no place like a romantic relationship to trigger your deepest fears and insecurities.
If you seriously want to change the nature of your relationship, you will have to get serious about changing your own nature.
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The cure for frequent anger is a well developed sense of inner strength and well-being. You have to know in your heart you are OKAY even when your thinking is trying to convince you otherwise.
The cure for constant judgment and criticism is compassion and empathy. You have know in your heart that other people are doing the best they can.
The cure for defensiveness is strong sense of self-respect and self-esteem. You have to know in your heart that external attacks are more about the attacker than they are about you.
Most men don't need deep therapy to accomplish all three.
Most men need a clear explanation...a clear plan...and a clear commitment to making changes for HIMSELF.
The men who succeed at this place a higher importance on the process of changing than they do on the end result.
The surest path to creating a bad outcome is being hyper-focused on the outcome. Developing an innate sense of well-being is the path to outcome independence.
And outcome independence in your relationship is the counter-intuitive path to building trust, connection and intimacy.
That is exactly the transformation we will teach you. It's one thing to tell you WHAT you need to do.
We will demonstrate and teach you HOW TO BE this man in every aspect of your life.
All you need now is the courage to open up your heart to someone who has been in your shoes.
When you're ready, ask us for a life-changing coaching consultation call. No, there's no charge...just an amazing connection.
And, it's not too late to join Dan and I with some amazing other men learning this
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