He Likes the Back Door, She Likes the Front Door. What now?

Published: Thu, 05/25/23

Hey brother,

Yeah, this isn't about what you think. I'm literally talking about a guy and his wife who argue about what door in the house he uses.

Do you ever find yourself in the middle of a stupid argument about stupid sh*t?

I used to do this all the time.

Why?

Apparently because I used to really like being right. I liked to win arguments with my ninja logic and debating skills. I never paid attention to her point of view...all I knew was that it was stupid, illogical and I knew how to "fix it".

Kind of like THIS guy. (you'll love this video)

I know, sometimes you just want to pull the freaking nail out and be done with it.

But what if most of the stupid arguments you're getting in are about something else?

And what if your willingness to dive in and fight about stupid sh*t does nothing but reduce your sense of peace, confidence and attractiveness?

That's exactly what's happening, I assure you.

Deciding to step back, take a deep breath and approach stupid arguments differently will IMMEDIATELY increase your confidence and self-respect.

And it will likely improve your emotional and intimate connection with her...assuming that's something you're concerned about.

Watch this video for more details about how to do this.

Does Your Wife Get Angry About Small Things?

If you've been caught in a downward spiral of negativity and arguing about stupid sh*t - and you want to change that - think about asking for help.

In only ONE consultation call, we often hear things like, "Holy crap, that was more useful than my last 6 months of marriage counseling!"

Why?

Because these calls are designed to serve you immediately and give you something tangible and actionable to work on. Tonight.

Go HERE to apply for a Free "Learn To Lead The Connection In Your Marriage" coaching call and start changing things today.

Last few spots...don't miss out on our UK retreat, Dan & I will help you get so clear on the what, where and how of changing what you don't want into what you do want: more details here

As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

I simply LOVE doing this work with men because it lights up my life to watch you charge back into your life with a grin on your face and swagger in your step.

Lotta love, brother,

Steve

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