The Pressure She Feels That You Don't Even Know You're Doing

Published: Sun, 08/06/23

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Hey brother,

I'll keep this short and straight-forward.

Sometimes the most simple idea is the most powerful.

Men love women.

Women want to be loved by men.

This is very often a huge problem.

Some of us want women so badly we will do nearly anything to gain their approval, attraction and desire.

Then something goes wrong.

We try too hard. And then they back away.

And then we try harder. And then they reject us.

And then we try harder. And then they will say or do ANYTHING to get us to stop the pressure.

You would think they would talk to us rationally and calmly and explain exactly what we need to do to win their approval, attraction and desire.

Therein lies the problem.

We expect a reasonable response from someone who is experiencing a serious emotional reaction to something they can't really explain.

Even worse, even if she tries, you won't really understand exactly what she means.

It sucks not knowing what you don't know.

Women can feel unbearable emotional PRESSURE from things that are invisible to you.

Without even a touch, they can pull back and run for the fences when they believe there is no escape and no other choice.

I learned all this the hard way.

And now I've made a life of trying to teach you what nobody - not your dad, uncle or grandfather - has taught you.

There's a better way to be a man.

I explain a this a little more in this video with my horses.

THERE'S A MUCH EASIER WAY TO BE IN RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN.

And this is exactly why we created the Confident Man Ranch Retreat for you.

It changes lives forever. It drastically improves some marriages.

And it 100% builds smarter, stronger, more confident men.

And I sincerely want you to join me and Tim Wade from October 8-11, 2023 at our next one in Loveland, Colorado.

This is real men, getting real with each other and having a really, really great time. Laughter, connection and brotherhood is what we create together.

It's the smartest and safest way for a man to grow a much bigger sense of masculine mojo and emotional confidence.

This amazing video was created by a past attendee who captured the essence of the retreat in 4 minutes.

I Like to Model What We Teach You

You'll never get what you want in this life if you don't clearly ask for it and unapologetically go after it.

I'm clearly asking you to do something new, something big and something scary for yourself.

I'm shamelessly telling you that I want to sign up for this retreat before it fills up.

And I'm unapologetic about how much I love this work and love the men we work with at this retreat.

I want one of them to be YOU, brother.

Check it out HERE.

And if you're "thinking about it", hit reply to schedule a call with me to talk it over. Seriously. Let's chat about your concerns.

We've got 8 weeks to go.

It's time make a decision.

Don't ask permission. Simply plan it, book it and explain why this is not a negotiable decision.

Here's how a man from our May retreat put it:

"With the opening, introductory question from Steve and Tim at the Retreat, it was clear that bringing one's vulnerability and truth was the name of the game. It was just what I was hoping and looking for even though I knew I was gonna have to push through insecurities. A safe, judgement-free space to connect with real men on a real level about real topics and issues. The ranch is an ideal setting given its vibe and surroundings, and Steve and Tim have this dialed in by striking a great balance between quantity of men attending, instruction, group discussion, individual reflections, and horse work. It was an unforgettable experience."

Go to The Confident Man Ranch Retreat page to learn more and, if you're ready, put your 50% deposit down to save your spot.

Lotta love, brother,

Steve

P.S. Hey, I realize not everyone can afford the time and/or money to attend this retreat. If you're getting started in this work or recently joined this email list, at least let me GIVE YOU something to help. If you want a FREE PDF copy of my book, Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband, just hit reply and say so. I'll send it right away.

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