There was a guy in the audience who was getting frustrated and asked the question that most of us have
thought about but never asked.
"Why is it so hard to connect with a woman and feel appreciated and get the affection and passion we want in a relationship?"
Sean rolled his wheel chair across the front of the room as he paused to prepare his answer. Then he faced his chair right at the man with the question and calmly said, "Because you're not yet the kind of man who gets those things."
Sonofabitch...that kind of hurt...and I wasn't even
the one who asked. And how did THIS guy get to be such a bad ass with an amazing life and marriage??
Sean went on over the next hour to explain what he knows about men, women, masculinity, self-confidence, sexual polarity and why it seems so hard to get what we want.
The bottom line to his answer was this.
You'll get what you want when you learn how to be a calm, confident, deliberate and pleased man.
It's only that man who can CREATE what he wants instead of wishing for what he
wants.
I get a lot of emails from men wanting to know what they need to DO in order to turn around their
marriage. They want to reconnect with their wife or girlfriend. They want to "save their marriage".
The reason it is so difficult for most men to do this is because they are not yet ready. They just
want to DO something - anything - because they don't know how to BE. Little do they know that they need to DO less than they ever thought.
They lack the mental and emotional "fitness", the clarity and calm confidence they require to say what must
be said - to think the thoughts that create confidence - to be an unapologetically passionate man who fully intends to create what he wants.
In this video I talk more about the type of fitness I'm referring to and why it's so important for you to
make this your TOP PRIORITY now.
