Why Being AFRAID of Divorce Will Likely End Your Marriage

Published: Sun, 01/15/23

Hey brother,

Yep.

You read that correctly.

It's "bizarro world" when your marriage starts to fall apart. Things that used to make sense no longer makes sense.

You're used to a world where a "problem" needs to be "fixed".

You're not in Kansas anymore. "Fixing the problem" is exactly the OPPOSITE of what you should be doing.

I know. Sounds bizarre, doesn't it? But why is it true?

Men who try to "fix their marriage" are facing some of the scariest feelings they have ever had. And it's this FEAR that makes them do the most INEFFECTIVE problem solving tactics. Things like:

TALKING about things...all the time...deep and heavy talks
ASKING QUESTIONS all the time...and waiting for answers
EXPLAINING and JUSTIFYING your concerns until midnight
DEMANDING that she give you clearly worded answers and a daily dose of certainty that everything is okay.

Do any of those sound familiar?

Here's what works.

STOP making this worse...immediately. Take a step back.

Get outside and breathe.

Next?

START thinking smarter. You can't talk yourself out of a situation you behaved yourself into. And all that crap above is just more of the same! Talking, asking, explaining and demanding.

This is starting to make sense, isn't it?

Watch this video to learn what the NEW THING is that will actually make a difference for you.

This is the thing SHE LEAST EXPECTS from you. And the only explaining you may have to do is telling her why it took this long for you to figure it out. (they ALWAYS ask that, so be prepared!)

Why Being AFRAID of Divorce Will Likely End Your Marriage

Why You Might Be Afraid of Trying Something New

I get it.

When I was starting out in this "work on you" crap, I kept my cards close to my chest.

I didn't want HER to know...and I didn't want friends to know.

I was AFRAID of what other people would think about me being in a men's group, or going to training events or even writing down my deepest, most intimate thoughts.

Guess what I learned.

F&ck that.

Now I'm telling EVERYONE! And I do it with a huge "I don't give a $&#@ grin" on my face.

And this is exactly what about 1000 men in my community are doing too. It's courageous as hell to bond with other men around a common goal.

It's fun and fulfilling to FINALLY TALK ABOUT THE STUFF WE WANT TO TALK ABOUT.

And it feels good to feel like you're finally living honestly and "out loud" for the first time.

The badass men in my community are unapologetic, open-hearted, fun loving men who are shamelessly unafraid of telling the truth about who they are, what they want and where they're going.

And I want YOU to experience this with us.

Just take ONE FEARLESS STEP FORWARD.

This is what you and your marriage need most. No more "fixing".

How about some REAL changes? Here are your options.

Free: Go HERE to apply for a Free "Fearless Man" coaching call to learn exactly how you can start changing things tomorrow.

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As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

I simply LOVE doing this work with men because it lights up my life to watch you charge back into your life with a grin on your face and swagger in your step.

Lotta love, brother,

Steve

P.S. There is ONE SPOT left for our fun and incredibly relaxing retreat in Playa Del Carmen Mexico starting February 25, 2023. The Mastering Your Mojo Mexico Retreat is designed for reclaiming your Mojo and your sense of humor again! Why don't you do something for YOU?

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