Statistically...this is the #1 Predictor of Divorce

Published: Sun, 01/01/23

Hey brother,

Yeah, it's a pretty ominous title, but it's true.

Backed by Dr. John Gottman's statistical marriage research (did this really need research?)...this relationship behavior is the #1 predictor of divorce.

What is it?

It's CONTEMPT.

Contempt (noun): the feeling that a person or a thing is beneath consideration, worthless, or deserving scorn.

It's a fancy word for hateful actions, spiteful words, or negative regard one person has toward another.

Sometimes it's disguised as common sarcasm, cynicism or "just kidding".

Have you ever been on the receiving end of it? How about the giving end?

Dr. Gottman’s further research points to four insidious behaviors that can signal the death of your marriage.

He calls them “The Four Horsemen of Divorce” and they are:

Criticism
Contempt
Defensiveness
Stonewalling

Contemptuous thinking and speaking in your relationship is the worst of these 4 "poisons." But the others are very potent as well.

In our How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb online course, we dive into each of them in detail. Check out this video from the actual course to get a quick lesson that will help you to start reversing the negative downward spiral in your marriage.

Click HERE to watch the video.

Okay, we’re going to give you the unvarnished truth.

If your marriage is not going well – if there is criticism and arguing or defensiveness and stonewalling and especially contempt, then you are on your way to a crisis.

Or maybe you’re already there and she has said “I need space… I love you but I’m not IN love with you… I don’t know if I ever loved you…” etc.

Either way, this situation WILL NOT GET BETTER BY ITSELF.

Trust us, we’ve been there. You need to take immediate, contrary action.

We’re not kidding. We’ve helped countless men stop the downward spiral of their relationships and there are things you NEED TO DO (AND STOP DOING) RIGHT NOW.

There is specific knowledge, a specific mindset and specific "man skills" required to reverse this negative spiral.

And these are things nearly no man has learned from his father.

That’s what our online course is all about. And right now we’ve got a no-brainer, zero-risk offer to help you.

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That means you have 2 days left and that’s it.

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PLUS, when you join, mark your calendar for our next LIVE GROUP COACHING SESSION with Tim and Steve on:

Wednesday, January 11th, 2023 at 1:00pm MST.

We want to meet you...to see you and hear your story. You belong with a group of men who get you and can give you the validation and support you need.

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Happy New Year, brother,

Steve and Tim

P.S. Why the big savings right now?

Because the vast majority of divorces are filed in January every year. And about 70% are initiated by the wife with the husband being completely blindsided by it.

Their wives wait long enough to just get through the holidays and then BAM! it’s the divorce bomb.

And we know that this evidence-based work actually works! So we want to get this into the hands of as many men as we can.

Over 700 men have gone through the course and joined our community so far and here’s what one of them emailed us recently:

“My wife and I were living in separate rooms for 3 years (no intimacy) our rings were off for about 4 months. A month after I took this course, she decided to put her ring on one day without telling me, so I just put mine back on, a few months later we are now reconciled, happy and back in our room together with lots of intimacy. Keep sticking to the rules and work on yourself brother. All of the sudden things can change.” --David H.

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