How I Once Argued for 3X More Intimacy

Published: Sun, 11/06/22

Hey,

This is not a lie.

In 1998 I came up with an argument for 3 times more sex than I was having at the time.

I actually had "data". I did some research. Then I presented my bullet-proof case for increasing the frequency of sex by a factor of three!

How do you think it went?

Yeah, not well.

Much to my surprise, "arguing for sex" wasn't a thing. In fact, it's hilarious when you think about it. It turns out the most un-sexy man in the world is the one who tries to "Perry Mason" himself into his wife's pants.

That was a time when I thought every problem in my life could be resolved with logic, data, tactics and a really persuasive argument.

In other words, I spent most of my waking hours living from my head.

Nobody told me there was another way to live...and another important body part to use. I tell you which one in this video.

18 Inches To More Affection and Intimacy With Your Wife

Why this matters to you

If you have been living from your head, this kind of stuff is going on for you:

You may frequently find yourself in stupid and unnecessary arguments.
You may feel easily agitated, frustrated, disappointed and critical.
You compare yourself to others, you keep score and you're overly competitive...even with your wife.
People may respect you...but they don't easily confide in you.

The Benefits of Living from Your Heart

When you learn to live from your heart, this kind of stuff starts going on for you:

People not only respect you, they trust you and seek you out for your wisdom and support
Your normal state is relaxed, engaged, curious and amused...no matter what is happening around you. And you like yourself in this state.
Your decisions are made with more clarity, confidence and consideration. You inspire others to follow and people trust your leadership.
You develop deeper connections in all of your relationships because your presence, patience and compassion are magnetic!

How do you learn this stuff? Funny you should ask.

On Saturday, November 19th we are starting our one-year course called The Heart Centered Leader.

This will be a special gathering of men who are ready to take their lives and their work to the next level.

It will be a collaboration of leaders who are learning and supporting other leaders to bring "open hearted living" into their world of work and money. Each member of the team will have their own "board of directors" as we learn, laugh and grow together.

This course is designed to totally change your perspective, thoughts and habits about your “work life”. You don’t control most of what happens to you in life and business. But you DO have control over your INSIDE game.

You will learn with others how to be the most open-hearted and most effective version of YOU so that your “work life” and your “personal life” feel nearly indistinguishable…because you are no longer playing different roles.

Whether you are an organizational leader within a company or a business owner, this 18-part series of lessons over 12 months will make your relationship to your work a fun, rewarding, meaningful, satisfying, spiritual and deeply connecting experience.

Your focus, energy, sense of purpose and productivity will soar as a result of your calm, clear and confident daily approach to what you do and why you do it!is

Are you still reading? That means this might be for you!

What now?

Let's talk.

If you feel like this just might be what you're looking for, hit REPLY now and let's chat. We can either chat in email or set up a time this weekend for a phone call.

We can't wait to do this course and hope you'll consider joining us.

Click HERE for a whole lot more information and the registration button for The Heart Centered Leader course.

Lotta love, brother,

Steve

P.S. Do you answer "Yes" to any of these statements? If so, this course may be perfect for you.

Even though I’m successful…I’m bored. I could do this in my sleep.
I’m a master of problem solving, strategy planning and getting sh*t done…but I feel disconnected from any passion for my work.
I feel a sharp division between my “life” and my “work”…and I don’t like feeling so pulled apart.
My commitment to my work is affecting my commitment to my partner.
People admire and respect me…but they have no clue that I often feel very alone.
I have very few people I can talk to about my deepest concerns.
I have bigger ideas but have nobody to help me develop them.
I don’t have anyone to challenge me and call me out on my own BS.
I want to feel more alive, more fun and more engagement in my work.
I want to create more time, schedule flexibility and freedom to be more creative and less reactive.
I want to feel like what I do really MATTERS and that my work is having an impact beyond building wealth.

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Steven Horsmon

550 Drake Ranch Rd., Livermore, CO 80536, USA

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