Hey brother,
Is your gut telling you that something is up?
You
feel a constant nausea caused by the twisted, aching knot in your stomach telling you to be fearful and suspicious.
You feel betrayed - at least deceived.
You don't know whether to confront her with indignant anger or to curl up in a corner and slowly die.
A little dramatic some might say?
Not if you've been there. It's hell on earth.
The angst and the constant questions keep you awake.
- What can I say or do?
- Who is she texting?
- Why is she sleeping on the couch again?
- Why is she so happy with everyone but me?
- I wonder if should hack into her phone and Facebook account?
- Is that wrong? What if I get caught?
- Why won't she even look at me?
- Where is she really going this weekend?
- What can I do to make her like me again!?
- What if I screw up and push her farther away?
The biggest question is usually, "If she is willing to cheat what does that mean about me!?
I have some unconventional and straight-forward advice for you on this.
There's only one good way through this time in your life and it will require strength, clarity and courage.
I explain more in this
video. Warning: I get a little worked up here.