Hey brother,
My life's purpose has become all about helping you...a slightly younger version of me.
Most of us didn't have the wise, old, dependable father figure to help us steer our way through the confusion and frustration of marriage, women and sex.
So when we hear stuff like this: (which one have you heard?)
- I just need space away from you
- I don't feel attracted to you anymore
- I don't think we have anything in common anymore
- I can't imagine having sex with you again
- I love you but I'm not IN LOVE with you
- I just don't feel connected like I used to
- I think we both would be happier with someone else!
...what's a guy supposed to do?
If you're like most of us, you panic. You go into full Mr. FIXIT mode.
You want to talk, analyze, debate, persuade and convince her that she's wrong.
What you really want is for that horrible knot in your stomach to go away so you can relax. You want to sleep again and have an appetite again.
What you really want is a guarantee that you won't be alone and that she will love you forever.
And the harder you try to get that certaintly, the more impossible it appears to be happening for you.
Like I said, as I type this, all I have to do is imagine a younger version of myself to understand what's going on inside your head and heart.
Here's a video I made just for YOU today. Two guys talking in a barn.
I want you to know there is something you can do immediately to take away much of your stress, confusion and anger.