"A pissy, angry guy is doomed to create a pissy, angry life everywhere he
goes"
I've talked a lot lately about anger and how badly it can screw up your relationship.
You know by now that a pissy, angry guy is doomed to create a pissy, angry life everywhere he goes.
Women aren't attracted to him. Kids are afraid of him. And dogs don't trust him.
But forget about them for a minute. Think about what pissy anger does to
you.
I know, it's not like you WANT to feel pissy and angry. You wouldn't pick this mood if you thought you actually had a choice, would you?
Or do you believe that anger (like shit) just happens?
Not
quite, brother.
If you would rather feel calm and confident in your skin more often, I wrote this email for you.
When we get angry, our insecure little 13 year old boy is having a field day, throwing things and declaring that "life ain't fair!!!"
In those moments it's easy to forget you were ONCE a really calm, confident, happy person.
Yes, I know that
about you. You're actually OKAY and you always have been.
EVERY guy tells me, "I don't know what happened! I USED to be confident and carefree and never really got rattled about anything. Now I
feel like I've lost it!"
What happened?
Fear happened. Doubt happened. Getting attached to someone else's opinion of you happened.
It made you conjure up stupid stories that tell you you're not okay.
That maybe you're not good enough. You're not lovable...and you just
might wind up alone, in windowless van, down by a river...eating government cheese!
Yeah. None of that's true is it?
So how do you get your mojo back?
How do you learn to relax, calm down and start LAUGHING more at the idea that you're not okay?
How do you take back your power to self-validate and feel confident in your own skin?
You do the work with other men who are in the same boat.
You spend focused, dedicated time with mentors who can help you rediscover the confident bad-ass who is still inside you.
Are you ready to join a group of like-minded men who are also working to become the calm, confident, mature and attractive man they know is inside them? These men WANT to support you on becoming the best man, husband, father and lover you can be - join us in the Men's Roundtable here.
As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the
right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
I simply LOVE doing this work with men because it lights up my life to watch you charge back into your life with a grin on your face and swagger in your step.
Lotta love brother,
Steve
