How To Handle Unwanted Drama With Confidence

Published: Sat, 09/03/22

Hey brother,

Do you have drama in your life?

Drama is the #1 killer of a man's freedom, peace and happiness.

For the purpose of this letter I offer you a definition.

DRAMA = Any external force of negativity, unrest, emotional projection or demands on your time or attention that you did not invite into your life.

Many men feel victimized by drama. They believe they have no choice but to accept it. Then they complain about it constantly...only to attract MORE drama.

It does not have to be this way.

The biggest reason we get drawn into drama is because we think we need to do something about it.

We think it's about us. And if it's about us then that means we're not okay.

And if we feel like we're not okay, then dammit, we need to fix whatever is causing the drama.

But here's the truth.

You ARE okay.

The drama is not about you. It's not caused by you. And it can't be fixed by you.

You ARE okay. And you don't need to engage.

Here's a quick video where I explain it better. I'm inviting you to a 7-Day Challenge to change how you respond to drama.

“What does it mean to know you're okay?"

It means that you know you are being a calm, clear-headed, conscious man.

It means that you know you are operating from values you've chosen and you have been stepping up in life according to your own standards.

When you know you are okay NOTHING rattles you. (think James Bond) You're grounded, curious and present. You respond to drama as if it was a pesky mosquito.

Drama no longer gets under your skin and influences your outlook or your mood.

And guess what that does to the energy of the drama queens and kings around you?

They respect you more. They calm down faster. And they learn to take their drama elsewhere.

This is what the 7-Day Challenge is about in the video. Go ahead - give it a shot and see what happens when you come from a place of being okay.

If you want a clearer description of what it's like to live like this guy, read this article of mine on the 50 traits of a guy who lives without drama.

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What would it feel like to be this guy?

It might seem like an impossibility. But it's not - especially if you've got someone in your corner to help you every step of the way.

Here's your first step...go HERE to apply for a Free "No More Drama" coaching call to learn exactly how you can start changing things tomorrow.

If you're ready to be in a group of like-minded men who truly get the drama that you're dealing with in your. Men who want to support you on becoming the best man, husband, father and lover you can be - join us in the Men's Roundtable here. It's a simple, straight-forward conversational setting for men like you to share their challenges, ask questions and leverage the experience and wisdom of everyone in the room.

As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

I simply LOVE doing this work with men because it lights up my life to watch you charge back into your life with a grin on your face and swagger in your step.

Lotta love brother,
Steve

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Steven Horsmon

550 Drake Ranch Rd., Livermore, CO 80536, USA

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