How Do I know If I Should Stay Or Go?

Published: Sun, 05/08/22

Hey,

I might have pissed him off...but I think he understood.

Over a beer the other day a frustrated man asked me,

"How can anyone know if the grass is going to be any greener on the other side?!"

He said, "I mean, really, I see just as many guys leaving marriages and being miserable as I see guys staying and being miserable. How do you decide?"

I told him, "It depends on whether you go to the other side as fertilizer or dog pee."

That's when I think I might have pissed him off.

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Fertilizer or dog pee? WTF does that mean?

I explained to him that I've seen men leave a marriage in a pissy, angry, resentful and defeated stated of mind and 100% wind up unhappy on the "green side" of the fence.

Why?

Because even if the grass was initially green when they got there, they made it turn brown (just like dog pee) in a matter of months.

They took their pissy attitude with them and slowly sabotaged the new grass by peeing all over it with anger, fear and resentment.

Here's the bottom line.

When you try to find your peace, confidence, happiness and manly mojo anywhere OUTSIDE of yourself, you'll wind up being like dog pee.

How can you choose to be FERTILIZER instead? And what does that mean?

More in the video below on that.

How to Know if You'll Be Happier if You Divorce

The only way to make a sound decision about staying in or leaving your marriage is to learn to be "fertilizer" now...not later.

What's that mean?

It means:

Learn how to relax and RESPOND to conflict like man instead of reacting like a little boy. (yeah, I know about that first hand)
Learn how to stand confidently in an emotional storm and not take everything so personally
Learn how to create emotional safety with anyone and stop trying to win arguments and being right about everything
Learn how to create sexual polarity and attraction by doing much less than you're doing now

A man who knows how to "fertilize" - wherever he is - realizes that HE is the source of the green grass.

He learns that calm, confident mojo is a place to come from - not a place to go to.

So, whether he decides to work on his current relationship or leave it - he first learns to BE a man who embodies the "greener grass".

He listens more - speaks less.

He's more curious and generous - less argumentative and needy.

He's learned that "happy" is an inside job and blaming anyone else for being unhappy is a waste of time.

Pretty tall order? I think not. I see this transformation happen every day.

If you're at a point where you're ready for this then listen up.

This isn't for someone who "kinda, sorta" wants to improve his life.

This if for ONE committed, "Hell Yes" man.

Is that you?

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Lotta love, brother,

Steve

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