The Sly Secret of Every Happy Husband

Published: Sun, 04/24/22

Hey,

Have you ever met a guy who seems almost annoyingly happy all the time?

He seems genuinely content from day to day, never complains about much...especially his relationship.

When you talk with him he's consistently present, connected and encouraging toward you.

He's annoyingly upbeat and positive and his wife seems to look at him with an adoring and amused expression.

They may tease each other, but never unkindly or disrespectfully.

That bastard! How's he do it?

If you're reading this email, you're probably a lot like me. I spent many years wondering about guys like that.

While I was generally content with work and recreational stuff, I was often one of the unhappiest husbands in room.

What does "unhappy' mean?

For me it was this chronic and continual assessment of my relationship. I would compare myself to men I thought were "happier" than I was. I would compare HER to women I thought were better wives than she was.

I was constantly searching for a "happy marriage" based on what I could see on the OUTSIDE.

I did this while my INSIDES were gurgling with discontent, envy, anger, resentment and impatience. My thoughts were polluted with negative judgment and frequently critical or unkind regard.

More often than not, that nasty energy would leak out of my brain and out of my mouth.

I had no freaking clue what was happening or how to change it.

I wanted to be one of those happy bastards so bad I've ended up doing this work for 10 yrs. now.

This video is about the epiphany that changed me...my way of thinking and ultimately, my consistent experience of "happiness".

I finally learned the sly secret those "happy husbands" were hiding.

The Sly Secret of Every Happy Husband

The 3 Baseline Habits of a Happy Human...and Husband

As I said in the video, these 3 things seem stupidly simple but, for some reason, can take a lifetime to learn.

It's not just an academic understanding you need to develop these habits.

A serious transformation of your own self-esteem, your daily perspective and your thinking habits is not something you get from a video or newsletter.

Here are the 3 baseline habits:

1. Begin to think of yourself with much higher regard; a man who worthy and valuable and, by default, can embody happiness in ANY situation. Your transformation is the realization that happiness is not accessible anywhere outside of your own mind or body.

2. Be kind. So simple, but so powerful. This requires you to see yourself as a bottomless pit of contentment. A man who is not threatened by drama, chaos or external circumstances. Your transformation is the realization that kindness is the most powerful gift you can give on a daily basis.

3. Hold her in high regard. This is the habit of giving people benefit of the doubt and assuming the best instead of the worst. This habits preempts that snarky, suspicious, judgmental, defensive, and butt-hurt energy we can ooze through our pores. Your transformation is the realization that when you change the way you look at her...she will actually change in front of your eyes.

Knowing WHAT to do is clear enough. What about the HOW?

That's a good question. While some people do pretty well taking the DIY route, most of us need more help.

In my case, transforming my perspective and thinking habits is still work in progress. One reason I love coaching is because it's a process of continuous growth and learning. Every man who joins our community brings new story, new challenges and new wisdom.

That's why I invite you to join the Goodguys2Greatmen community and consider taking a serious, deep dive into this work. Nothing will accelerate your growth and spark your confidence more than talking with other men on the same path.

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And if you're ready for a conversation about you, your situation and how you want to improve your life, then let's schedule a long, deep coaching consultation. Plan for at least an hour to dive in and connect with me or one of our certified GG2GM coaches. We do dozens of these calls each month.

They are crazy vulnerable, powerfully personal and tremendously transforming. Yeah, in just one conversation you will likely have your first of many breakthroughs. To schedule your personal free coaching consultation, click HERE and fill out your application. You'll get a personal video reply shortly after we receive it.

Lotta love, brother,

Steve