Why is My Wife Happy Around Everyone Else But Me?

Published: Sun, 06/19/22

Hey,

I get this email about twice a week.

Same story. Same question. Different guy.

Hell, I was this guy years ago so I totally get it.

Here we go.

"Steve, I think my story is probably different from most other guys you talk to. My wife and I mostly get along and we're not talking about divorce. But she is more like a friend and roommate.

She's totally checked out of the romantic part of our marriage and says she's just not interested. I don't believe her because she absolutely lights up with everyone else but me. She's more playful, affectionate and happy with everyone (even the dog) than she is with me.

She's also been spending a lot of time with a mutual friend (a married guy) down the street. She says they are "just friends", but she seems to put time with him ahead of time with me. She says we don't have much in common anymore and don't have a connection.

So...while I don't think divorce is on the horizon, I NEED HELP of some kind. The thing is, I don't know what is best for me.

I'm confused about your Masculine Confidence personal coaching program, the Men's Roundtable group, the Defuse the Divorce Bomb online course and the retreats you offer.

Given my unique situation, what do you think would be the best fit for me? Thanks."

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First of all, let's forget about what option he needs for a minute.

I want to point out how amusing it is that he believes his situation is unique.

While everyone is special in their own way, we've found that the men who contact us have many things in common. It's scary how often the emails virtually REPEAT themselves.

It's because of this common bond (and common mistakes) that our community and coaching events are so effective.

We've seen it all before and we know the path to getting you through it with strength, confidence...and even a smile on your face.

In this video, Dan will tell you about the common ties that bind all of us.

My Wife Is Happy Around Everyone Else But Me

The Ties That Bind Us

There is a common set of red flags most men we work with have waving in front of their face.

These are the issues we unravel, unpack and redefine for you so you can finally take yourself and your relationship to the next level.

He thinks things are mostly okay, except for this intimacy thing
She thinks things are mostly not okay, except for daily logistics

He is craving for intimacy of any type
She is resisting all of his efforts to connect

He is working his ass off trying to please her
She is slightly disgusted by his efforts

He is quietly getting resentful and angry
She can read it all over his face

He is secretly burning up inside about this "friend" of hers
She feels totally justified in taking her time and energy somewhere else

Does any of this sound familiar to you?

Are you sick and tired of not knowing what else to try?

Are you about to say "screw it" and throw in the towel?

This stage of your life and relationship has a purpose.

There's still so much left to learn about yourself, your thinking and how you are responding to all these daily triggers.

And we want to be your coach and Sherpa for the next part of your journey.

We can't guarantee you'll get everything you think you want, but we DO guarantee you'll get everything you need to make the next 10 years of your life more amazing than you ever dreamed.

Bold promise? Yeah. We watch men make this change every day and it never gets boring.

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The Men's Live Coaching Roundtable group is incredibly active in the Facebook group and we meet twice a month live for Q&A live coaching.

One guy sent us this comment recently:

At the last Roundtable you gave me so many helpful statements that I couldn’t absorb them all that fast. Now that I have had time to listen to them again a few times I really want to tell you how much I appreciate your excellent coaching. You are great at what you do. You are helping me. I am really making progress thanks to you.

Click HERE to sign up and join us. Our next live call is on Thursday, June 23rd at 1:00pm MDT US.

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And if you're a man who is just finding out that he may be headed for separation or divorce, the powerful online course "How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb" has its own community of amazing men who are waiting for you to join them in learning things you wish your dad told you about men, women and marriage. We also do one live group call per month.

Are you interested in a highly exclusive, customized coaching program? This is the most powerful and fastest way to make changes.

Apply here for a free consultation call.

It's guaranteed to blow your mind.

Lotta love, brother,

Steve & Dan

P.S. I know these are bigger investments than some guys can make right now. If you just want to get started reading my book and boost your own mojo, then here's the link for that. If for any reason at all you can't buy this online and need a free copy, just hit reply and say, "Steve, please send me a free PDF of your book." I don't want $7.99 to come between us.

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