How to Help Her Relax and Bury Her Face in Your Chest Again

Published: Sun, 06/05/22

Hey,

If you're on my email list, there's a 99.8% chance you are sucker for romance, intimacy and the very THOUGHT of a beautiful woman cuddling up to you and burying her face in your chest.

That's why I used that title for this email.

Because you're just like me. Just like all of us in this community.

And, most likely, you're in this group because your current life story has been moving in the other direction.

This means that the prospect of having a beautiful, relaxed woman snuggle up to you and bury her face in your chest has become a mere fantasy.

Let's talk about the MOST SIMPLE CONCEPT IN THE WORLD for changing the direction and the mood of your relationship.

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Have you ever wondered what separates chronically unhappy and disconnected couples from those are consistently happy and affectionate?

Here's the secret that the most successful marriage counselors in the world have discovered.

Unhappy, disconnected couples are chronically STUCK in a habitual thinking pattens of negativity, criticism and competition for righteousness. This is driven by insecurity and defensiveness.

They stay in this "LOW MOOD" state while trying to "solve problems" through unproductive conversations and debates about "right vs wrong".

This is in direct contrast to couples who learn to change the way they THINK ABOUT THEIR THINKING.

Happy, affectionate couples learn to be consistent in healthier thinking patterns of positivity, appreciation and connection. This is driven by a renewed sense of personal confidence and self-esteem.

They stay in this "HIGH MOOD" state while striving to maintain their intimate connection through giving each other more loving regard, benefit of the doubt and willing acceptance of their differences.

This way of being is a CHOICE TO SEE WHAT EACH OTHER IS DOING RIGHT vs. DIGGING FOR WHAT EACH OTHER IS DOING WRONG.

I said this was a very SIMPLE CONCEPT. I didn't say it was easy.

If you or your wife is suffering from deep seated issues of shame, pain or insecurity, this email will sound like a Disney movie to you.

But, my experience is that only smart, tough and emotionally intelligent men tend to join my community.

These are the guys who realize that the work toward healing the relationship must start with healing themselves.

First things first, as I always like to say.

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Smart Guys Get Clear About What They Want

I don't usually give homework assignments in these weekly emails. Today is different.

If you've read this far and want to know more, I want you to read a very simple, straight-forward and incredibly wise book about your relationship.

The book is called, "The Relationship Handbook" by George Pransky.

The rest of this email is for the man who actually takes the time to read and study this book.

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The problem with most self-help assignments like the one I just gave you is that they are missing something.

That book is amazing. It's written clearly and powerfully.

You will learn exactly WHAT is going wrong and what you will need to DO to fix it.

But, the author only briefly mentions something that is the one reason you will be unsuccessful in applying the principles.

If we harbor our thoughts of insecurity, we end up in a state of distress. Insecurity is the generic human mental illness. The cure is to understand the psychological forces of thought, feelings and states of mind.
~ George Pransky. The Relationship Handbook

That's the problem. He doesn't teach you exactly HOW to remedy the underlying insecurity at the ROOT of the problem.

If you weren't suffering from some degree of insecurity, you would have never wound up reading this email.

If you weren't in distress and already playing in the arena of criticism, defensiveness and competition with your wife, you wouldn't bother trying to find some "self help".

So...let's put first things first.

If you want to be of those men who learns to be consistent in healthier thinking patterns of positivity, appreciation and connection, then you must address the insecurity preventing you from doing it.

If you want to feel driven by a renewed sense of personal confidence and self-esteem, you must first tackle the emotional fear and self-doubt that is making you feel stuck.

The good news is this is exactly what we do for men everyday. And we're really, really good at it.

We only work with men exactly like you. (and exactly like me, for that matter)

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I Want You to Feel Like You've Just Had a Long Drink of Cold Water in the Desert

That's what it feels like when you finish a LONG deep-dive coaching consultation call with us.

I'll give it a fancy name just for you.

It's the "Conquer Your Insecure Thinking and Feel Like a Confident Husband Who Can Lead the Way Back to Happiness Coaching Call".

It's important to me to be crystal clear and authentic.

That's not just a marketing tactic. It's my promise.

If you're ready to get serious and allow someone to take you deeper than you've ever gone, then contact us for a personal coaching experience.

You will never understand the power and impact of having a professional men's coach in your corner if you don't experience it first hand.

And, yeah, we never charge you to give you this experience. The only "fee" is your personal commitment and presence to show up fully.

We hide nothing and hold nothing back and we'll ask you to do the same.

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Go to the application page by clicking HERE.

Answer the unusually PERSONAL QUESTIONS.

Make a decision to trust someone who gets you and can help you.

The coaching consultation will last AT LEAST 60 MINUTES, so be sure you're in a quiet, private place.

You will leave the call with one of the many "Hold Crap" moments yet to come.

Lotta love, brother,

Steve